But that's their fight and their decision for how to deal with it so I just have to let go, I guess, even though it's hard for me because I tend to be a "fixer."
Speaking of fixing... it seems that going down to 50 mg of Topamax has fixed my psychological issues. Unfortunately, my pain issues are back. I have a lot more discomfort going on with my head. It's frustrating, but at least it's the off season so I have the opportunity to go into workout hibernation and let everything heal naturally. I just have to trust that this will happen this time and in a timeframe that is acceptable to me.